Share Your Story

Hi, I’m Heather Cram, and I want to hear your story. By sharing your story, you have the ability to help others going through a similar situation. Although the difficulties we as single spouses often encounter can be very difficult, please only post stories of encouragement that will assist other straight spouses.  Some of the hard details are necessary...but how you have dealt with your situation in a constructive manner is what we want to show here.

How did you deal with your discovery?  Have you told your kids?  How did you find a therapist? What did you do for "you" during the days and months following your discovery of your spouse's change in sexual orientation?  How is your relationship with your ex?  How are you working together and separately to raise the kids? How have you moved on after the divorce to find fulfilling love?

Every month I will extract topics from the stories submitted by readers for placement on my blog www.yourewhat.com.  Together we can help the potentially millions of people who will find out that their spouse is gay to adjust to a new productive, happy life for themselves, their kids, and their extended families.

Please submit your story to my personal email address: heather@ismyspousegay.com

Thank you in advance for your courage.

Heather Cram

“Their story, yours and mine -- it’s what we all carry with us on this trip we take, and we owe it to each other to respect our stories and learn from them.”
- William Carlos Williams